I Have Tried Everything I Can To Get His Attention!
February 24, 2009
“Hi Katie,
I mega like this guy and he will flirt but then when he is with his friends he acts like nothing happened. We have gone out before and it went really but he dumped me because he didn’t want a girlfriend over Christmas! grrr anyway…..
He likes my best friend and I have tried everything I can think of to get his attention, got any ideas??? Even his best friend has tired to convince him!! Should I just give up and take it he doesn’t like me???”
Laura, 13
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Dear Laura,
Sounds like you should move on. You can’t really MAKE anyone like you…and it sounds like he is not really worth your time and effort of trying to make him like you. You say he flirted with you and then acted like nothing happened…do you think you may have mistaken friendliness with flirting? This is common sometimes and can make it seem more complicated than it really is.
You also say that he likes you best mayte…then why are you trying to get his attention? Sounds like he is into your friend not you…so do yourself a favor and let him go. I’m sure there are other guys out there who would love to have you as a girlfriend….and those are the guys you want to put that kinda effort into! Trust me girl, it is no fun putting all that effort into someone who doesn’t appreciate it or want to return the same effort or feelings…it will only make you feel frustrated and sad.
Katie
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