He Is Asking Me Very Personal Questions What Should I Do?
February 26, 2009
“A guy in my class likes me and he is asking all of these very personal questions what should I do? Tell him or ignore him?”
~Vanessa, 14
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Dear Vanessa,
You definitely don’t need to tell him ANYTHING that you don’t want him to know. That is rude of him to ask you personal questions. And it’s OK for you to tell him that! Just say “your getting a little too personal don’t ya think?” You don’t have to be mean or rude, say it nice but firm. He might not realize he is being too personal, so don’t get mad at him, just help him see that his questions are inappropriate.
If he still doesn’t get it and continues, you can try ignoring him, but if that doesn’t work and he keeps bugging you…start asking him REALLY personal questions (in a funny way, not mean) and maybe he will realize how invasive his questions are and leave you alone.
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drear vanessa
i think that if hes asking personal questions tell him or if you feel unconfitable dont awnser..
but to stop him asking these questions i would let him no how you feel about it.
Feb 27th, 2009
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