Is It Ok To Like My Cousin If We Are Not Blood Related?
February 28, 2009
Hey,
My cousin who is not by blood is into me and I was into him at first but then I thought about it and how weird it was but he asked me out and I said yes and I don’t know why I was so confused my family doesn’t know anything about it luckily anyways that was a while ago he holds my hand now and again but we never talk about ‘us’ and so we haven’t broken up.
But we haven’t talked about it its so weird I’m starting to have feelings for him again we talk on msn because he moved and I don’t see him he has a girlfriend well he says he does and its so confusing should I break up with him or are we already broken up please I need heaps of help!
P.S. I cant tell my family
Jesse, 13
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Dear Jesse,
I can see why you are confused, but it sounds like you guys are not together. He has another girlfriend now. So maybe he did like you at one time, but now he is with another girl so you need to respect that and not hold his hand anymore. And just cause you haven’t talked about it doesn’t necessarily mean you are still together. He may have never thought you were together in the first place.
I know it will be hard to just get over him cause you still have feelings, but I think it would be a good thing in the long run, because even though you are not blood related, he is still your cousin and things could get really messy if your parents found out. So next time you see him or talk to him just act as if you are friends, don’t flirt with him or kiss him or anything…that will only make your feelings for him grow stronger…plus you will be respecting his current relationship by not interfering with it.
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