Comments on: Do You Ever Feel Not Good Enough? http://www.girltogirltalk.com/blog/teengirladvice/12/do-you-ever-feel/ Get the Best Teen Girl Advice Here! Tue, 12 Apr 2011 21:34:03 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: yesman http://www.girltogirltalk.com/blog/teengirladvice/12/do-you-ever-feel/comment-page-1/#comment-1617 yesman Sat, 05 Dec 2009 10:03:34 +0000 http://girltogirltalk.com/wordpress/?p=12#comment-1617 My boyfriend's ex was a doctor, and his mother would always talk about him to my b/f in front of me when I visited, i'm no way near clever enough to be a doc, and again don't come from an academic background like he does and so i just feel like i'm not good enough for his family. people can be so mean....... My boyfriend’s ex was a doctor, and his mother would always talk about him to my b/f in front of me when I visited, i’m no way near clever enough to be a doc, and again don’t come from an academic background like he does and so i just feel like i’m not good enough for his family.

people can be so mean…….

]]> By: Carol http://www.girltogirltalk.com/blog/teengirladvice/12/do-you-ever-feel/comment-page-1/#comment-85 Carol Sun, 04 Jan 2009 03:04:33 +0000 http://girltogirltalk.com/wordpress/?p=12#comment-85 Hello Katie, I often feel that I'm not good enough for my current boyfriend (whom I have been with for a little over a year now). He comes from a very intelligent family and is respectably intelligent himself. Though I feel confident that I am intelligent and level-headed, it is obvious that my boyfriend is much more academically inclined than me. A lot of it has to do with how we were raised, as it was very different. Now he is hinting at an engagement and my concern is that I am not the best person for him due to our intellectual differences. (Albeit everything else is very compatible.) I'm not sure how to reconcile with this issue or feeling and have lately thought of taking some time apart to give him the opportunity to assess our capacity for happiness in light of our differences. I'm not quite sure what to do but now that the holidays are over and life is settling down, a discussion is in order. Hello Katie,

I often feel that I’m not good enough for my current boyfriend (whom I have been with for a little over a year now). He comes from a very intelligent family and is respectably intelligent himself.

Though I feel confident that I am intelligent and level-headed, it is obvious that my boyfriend is much more academically inclined than me. A lot of it has to do with how we were raised, as it was very different.

Now he is hinting at an engagement and my concern is that I am not the best person for him due to our intellectual differences. (Albeit everything else is very compatible.)

I’m not sure how to reconcile with this issue or feeling and have lately thought of taking some time apart to give him the opportunity to assess our capacity for happiness in light of our differences. I’m not quite sure what to do but now that the holidays are over and life is settling down, a discussion is in order.

]]> By: ladymiss http://www.girltogirltalk.com/blog/teengirladvice/12/do-you-ever-feel/comment-page-1/#comment-43 ladymiss Tue, 21 Oct 2008 15:41:52 +0000 http://girltogirltalk.com/wordpress/?p=12#comment-43 I think you feel as if your not good enough for him, because you are insecure about yourself. But instead of beating yourself up over it, why not try to work harder on things you feel you are not good at?? Let your boyfriend inspire you to become better. The truth is ... the harder you work on whatever you feel your lacking, more likely your going to succeed. Its a paradox of insecurity. I think you feel as if your not good enough for him, because you are insecure about yourself. But instead of beating yourself up over it, why not try to work harder on things you feel you are not good at?? Let your boyfriend inspire you to become better. The truth is … the harder you work on whatever you feel your lacking, more likely your going to succeed. Its a paradox of insecurity.

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