I Love Him, But His Girlfriend Is My Friend!
March 3, 2009
“Hey my name is Brianna I AM AM REALLY REALLY in love with this boy Jesus but he has a girlfriend that is my friend and it so hard. And also I told him I’m in love with him and all he said was wow!
Can you give me advice on what to do and what he means by wow?
Brianna, 13
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Dear Brianna,
He has a girlfriend, so regardless of how you feel about him, you need to RESPECT their relationship. Especially because his girlfriend is your friend! You have no business telling him you love him when he is with someone else. ANd he most likely said WOW because he was not expecting you to say that. What is he supposed to do anyway now that you told him, break up with her?!
You have put him in a really awkward situation by telling him your feelings while he is with your friend. So my advice to you is to respect their relationship and do your best not interfere anymore or tell him your feelings. If you had a boyfriend you wouldn’t want your friend telling him that she is in love with him, right?!
If you hang out with him and your friend often, to make it less awkward you may want to apologize to him and tell him it was wrong of you to tell him those things since he is with your friend.
If it is true love and you STILL feel the same way down the road and he becomes single again, by all means go for it! But right now it would be best to give his relationship some personal space and wait until he is single.
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