Why Would A Guy With A Girlfriend Always Look At Another Girl??
March 28, 2009
Hi Katie!!
Well there is this guy at my school that I would always look at..but only because he’s hot. When he first noticed me looking at him he smiled but I was too shy to smile back so I turned away. But now that he has a gf I try not to look so much. But I think the only reason he’s going out with her is because she liked him and he was just desperate.
They have probably been going out for like a week now but all of a sudden he starts looking at me, and sometimes stares. Sometimes he’ll look at me and we’ll make eye contact for like 2-6 seconds.
If he has a girlfriend than why would he be looking at me??
~Kyya, 14
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Dear Kyya,
The reason that a guy with a girlfriend would check out another girl is because he is not completely satisfied with his current girlfriend and isn’t really that into her. He might be thinking of her as a temporary girlfriend mean while he is keeping his eyes pealed for the girl of his dreams.
Some guys settle for girls they don’t like a lot because they like to have someone to be with and make out with and stuff. Like you said, he is probably going out with her because he is a little desperate and just wants to have a girlfriend at the moment, not because he really likes her. He is definitely not “in love” with her or he wouldn’t be constantly starring at you.
Also, he is making you a little uncomfortable because he keeps starring at you still now that he has a girlfriend. However don’t feel guilty, it is not your fault that the guy can’t keep his eyes to himself! And if he takes it to the next step and flirts with you or asks you out, just remind him he has a girlfriend and he is being rude to her and you.
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