This Girl Keeps Copying Me…
July 24, 2008
Hi Katie,
I used to go on a message board and became close with a lot of the people. I don’t go on it anymore, but I still talk to a few of them. One of the girls recently added me on MySpace, and is constantly coping what I do.
Obviously she thinks because she doesn’t talk to me, she can copy me and get away with it. She reads my comments, obviously, too. I mentioned a movie and then the next day she goes crazy about it’s her favorite movie.
I have the word ‘scandalous’ after my name on MySpace; she puts the same word after hers. I put a picture of me with certain makeup on; she does it the same way and posts a picture a few days later.
I don’t mean to sound like one of those bitchy MySpace girls, but the only contact I have with her is through MySpace. I deleted her, but she can still see my MySpace page, obviously.
I need advice on what to do please?
~ Becca ~
Hi Becca!
Copying is truly a form of flattery…I know that sounds cliché but it sounds to me like she looks up to you and thinks highly of you.
She may be lost herself and sees something in you that she wishes she could be like.
Don’t let it get you angry, think of it as a compliment…plus now that you deleted her you don’t have to worry about her anymore, you can always put your page as “private” so only your friends can view your page.
You could also try doing something really funny by dressing ridiculos in your picture and see if she copies you. Then the joke is on her!
Just don’t take it so seriously and let it bother you so much. If making light of it will help you see the humor in the situation it might be your best bet!
xoxo Katie
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