He Said He Would Call But He Didn’t!
April 9, 2009
Hi Katie,
I’ve got a problem… a boy that I like asked me to go out two weeks ago, he said he was going to call me …but he didn’t , I don’t know if it’s because he’s shy, he forgot…or he just don’t want to see me.
What should I do? Remember him? But I think if he likes me he wouldn’t forgot , So I don’t know what to do.
Thank You!
Josefina, 15
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Dear Josefina,
Sometimes it’s really hard to tell why a guy doesn’t call. It really can be a number of different reasons, like you suggested, maybe he is shy, or he forgot, or he might not really like you.
A lot of guys don’t feel comfortable talking on the phone or calling girls. To be honest they really don’t know what to say and nervous they will say the wrong thing. Even if a guy isn’t shy in social settings, he still might be apprehensive to call a girl because he gets nervous on the phone.
So give him the benefit of the doubt and call him if you have his number. It will break the ice and you will find out if he still wants to go out. When you call just be really positive and happy and don’t bring up the fact that he hasn’t called. Just suggest a fun activity or movie to see and ask if he wants to join you.
If he doesn’t want to go, then maybe he really was just politely avoiding you. But if he says yes and wants to hang out with you then he is definitely into you and was just shy about calling.
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