My Bikini Top Fell Off And Now He Is Avoinding Me, Is He Over It?

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April 14, 2009

Hey Katie,

I went to Niagara falls and stayed in this cool resort with a water park. When I was coming out of my room I saw my crush!! I haven’t seen him since summer camp and I thought I was over him but NOPE so we went to the water park together and I knew he kinda liked me.

Later I went down a really steep slide and my bikini top fell off. He seem so disturbed he avoided me for the whole evening, the next day he kinda seemed over it but I don’t think he likes me anymore?

Katie I need your help, does he still like me?

Zaiah, 13


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Dear Zaiah,

Well what happened was most likely embarrassing for BOTH of you! You crush feels bad for having seen your top half naked without you really wanting him too. He might even feel a little ashamed for having looked which made it awkward for him too. So just make a joke of it and don’t act to serious about what happened.

Him avoiding you doesn’t necessarily mean he doesn’t like you anymore. He is most likely just feeling a little uncomfortable still. Maybe he has never seen a girl who he likes half naked before, so it may have brought out a shy side to him.

Just try to play it off and don’t focus on what happened too much. If it comes up just joke about it and don’t make a big deal out of it. If you act as if nothing happened when your around him, it will help make it easier for him to be comfortable too.

xoxo
Katie
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  1. Thanks for the advice but i dont think i will ever see him again i only went to summer camp with him for a couple years but now where too old so i dosent matter if he likes me because i wont see him.

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