Who Should I Choose, Guy A or Guy B?
April 22, 2009
Hi 
I really need some help! I like this really sweet, nice guy (guy A) and he likes me too…but one of my friends liked him too and then he started to like her. So I like him and he likes me, he likes her and she likes him. this boy doesn’t go to the same school or live in the same town as me and my friend and we only talk to him online, we have not seen him in a year and a half. I really like him and I think he really likes me too but I don’t know what to do about my friend.
But I also like another boy (guy B) who goes to my school, he doesn’t know i like him and I don’t know if he likes me but on msn tonight he said that he wanted to have a date with me and that he liked me but his friend goes on his msn all the time and pretends to be him so I don’t know what to think. Have I missed my chance?
And Guy A said that he wanted to go out with me or go on a date at least but then I said that we should meet as friends because we haven’t seen each other in so long and then he said that he wanted me to go out with Guy B. but before that he said that he wanted me to go out with Guy B because he wanted me to be happy and going out with him would make me happy and even though he would be sad because I was going out with the other guy he would be glad that I was happy.
I thought that was really sweet but all of a sudden he was saying that he was stupid for liking me and my friend because he hasn’t seen us in so long. And I really like both of them and I don’t know what to do if I Guy B did like me.
Guy A is sweet but he’s not good looking (kinda shallow I know but I thought it needed added in lol) and he is quite fun and we have things in common.
Guy B is kinda funny, nice looking, nice when he wants to be lol! I really don’t know which one to choose, please help me decide? Thanks!
Becca, 14
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Dear Becca,
It sounds like you and Guy A should just remain friends. He lives far away, and you haven’t seen him in a year and a half. So right now is not a good time to start anything romantic with him, and that also means you can’t get jealous if he talks to your friend. He is a nice guy and sounds like he wants what is best for you and what makes you happy, which is great. You should definitely keep him in your life, friends like that are hard to find.
And since you don’t really know if Guy B likes you or not, just get to know him better and over time you will see if he likes you back. I don’t think you have to make any drastic decision, its OK to talk to both guys see what happens. Also, because Guy B goes to your school it will be easier for you to date him because you will see him more and get to know him better.
But beware of anything you read on his msn, there is no way of telling if it is him or his friends on there talking to you. So if you are chatting online with him and he starts saying those things, tell him to call you and see if he says the same thing on the phone as he does online.
2 Comments, Comment or Ping
Kennedy
Im going with what Katie says (she always has great advice) Guy B lives farther so you would\’nt get to see him as often as Guy A. =) Plus you would get to know him better and hang out with him more.
May 29th, 2009
Kennedy
Im going with what Katie says (she always has great advice) Guy B lives farther so you would’nt get to see him as often as Guy A. =) Plus you would get to know him better and hang out with him more.
May 29th, 2009
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