My Friends Wont Believe Me, How Can I Show Them I’m Innocent?
April 28, 2009
Hey Katie,
I have a kinda big problem. My three best friends are mad at me because someone told them that I called them the n word. They know I would never say that I have tried talking to them on the phone but she keeps hanging up on me. Now I’m starting to think that if they were really my friends they would listen to me and believe me. Another problem is that they are the kind of friends that would try to turn everyone against me. I know that sounds bad and maybe they aren’t good friends for me. Please help!
Sierra, 13
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Dear Sierra,
You have already told your friends that you did not say those things about them. And that is really all you can do. There is no way to prove to them that you didn’t say any of those things. At this point it is up to them to believe you. In a way you are right, that if they are good friends and trust you they will believe you. But sometimes it is hard to tell who is telling the truth.
What if they are thinking the same thing about you and questioning if you were a good friend why would you say that about them (even though you really didn’t). So it doesn’t necessarily mean that they are not good friends, they are just confused about who to believe and may not have known you long enough to know you wouldn’t ever say that.
So try not to get too defensive when they accuse you of saying that, just stay calm and tell them that you would never say those things and hope that they can see that you are telling the truth. If you start getting defensive and mad you will only look more guilty. At this point it is up to them to realize you are telling the truth.
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