What Do I Do If I Like Two Guys That Are More Popular Than Me?
June 7, 2009
Dear Girl to Girl Talk,
I have this huge crush on two guys in my grade! I mean I LOVE them but they are both popular and I’m just a girl in the school that’s fat and really unpopular. I asked them out but they said no. But I just can’t get them out of my mind I’m crazy about them. They’re both really nice to me!
Now for the questions:
1st. I don’t know if it’s ok to love two guys at the same time?
2nd. How could I get one or both to like me?
Nikki, 14
Dear Nikki,
These guys have both already told you NO when you asked them out, so you already know that they don’t feel the same way you do. But don’t get down on yourself, it’s SO easy to fall for the most popular, good looking guys in school that all the girls have a crush on. You may wanna look at why you like them in the first place, it may just be because a lot of other girls do too.
They both seem to think you are nice, but they are not interested romantically. It would be best if you could just forget about them, but I know that’s hard to do and it’s totally OK to still have a crush on these guys and think fondly about them. Just as long as you don’t obsess over them or try to change their minds. They will only think you are annoying if you keep asking them out after they said NO.
Keep being friendly when you see them but don’t get your hopes up, you already know that they are not interested back… my suggestion would be to put your energy and effort into other guys who reciprocate your feelings. Finding a guy who likes you back will feel a lot better than feeling the rejection from these two guys.
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