How Do I Introduce Myself To A Guy I Like?
June 1, 2009
Hey Katie!
I heard this website on YouTube.. and I read some questions from teens too.. I think you’re really great!
So anyway, there’s this boy I like in my band class, and he’s really cute. There’s this time when he stared at me in like 8 seconds like in front of me! And I didn’t even look at him! I’m too shy!!! And one time at lunch while he was giving something to his friend and he was looking at me! I’m confused! Then, his schedule got changed so he is not in my class anymore:(
But our lunch schedule changed too and I only see him at lunch. I still like him, I want to know if he likes me back, but I’m too shy to talk to him. How can I get him to notice me? And how can I talk to him? I don’t want to introduce myself and say “Hey, I’m Czarliz..” It feels really awkward. HELP!!!!
Thank you, 
Czarliz, 12
Dear Czarliz,
Sounds like you really like this guy and wanna know how to get him to notice you more during lunch…so here is what you do:
Since he already tends to look at you when you are around…during lunch time sit near his table or hang out where he is able to see you. Don’t go try to talk to him right away and don’t stare at him and his friends either. The first few days try not to even look in his direction, and ask your friends if they see him looking over at you a lot.
Make sure you are dressed nice and have spent some time in the morning fixing up your hair and makeup. Then when you are near him and you happen to glance over you should use subtle body language such as playing with your hair, your necklace, this will send signals that you are flirting. Make sure you stand and sit up straight so that you look confident and poise. Always smile and look friendly, it is important to display yourself at your very best including your attitude! No guy will want to come talk to a girl if she seems mean or rude.
Make yourself approachable! If you are constantly surrounded by your ten closest girlfriends NO guy would be brave enough to approach you. Guys often wait until you are alone to come talk to you. Try not to be with your girlfriends ALL the time. Be alone occasionally when you are around him to give him an opportunity to ask you out in a more non-threatening environment.
And in general, make sure to be nice to people at school especially his friends, because as you know word gets around fast when people are mean ant they get a bad reputation fast. You want him to hear good things about you, not bad. And if he hears you were making fun of someone or yelled at a girl on the bus then he will be totally turned off and lose interest in you.
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