What Do I Do If He Doesn’t Even Know I Exist!?
September 7, 2009
Hi Katie,
I like a guy, but he doesn’t know that “me” Daniella exists. But he has seen me in the hallway and we have made eye contact but I don’t know how to get his attention. What should I do???
Daniella, 15
Dear Daniella,
Start out by smiling and saying hi when you see him in the hall and make eye contact. Do this a few times, and if he hasn’t come talk to you yet, then start up a conversation with him. Ask him if he could show you where something is, or what time is it. After that you will see if he is interested if he continues to want to talk to you or if he initiates any other conversations later.
But definitely start by smiling at him. You will most likely not even have to approach him cause he will come to you if you seem interested and friendly. Also dress cute when you go to school. Spend a little more time with your hair and makeup, and pick out a nice cordinated outfit so that you look extra nice when you are trying to get his attention.
3 Comments, Comment or Ping
Erica, 14
Hey Katie,
I’m Erica…
There’s this guy names Tony…
Wow he’s amazing.
I’ve talked to him once in my entire time I’ve had a crush on him! (Which has been like a year or so)
And it was only for like 2 minutes!
The day we talked, we were at JHO (junior honor orchestra)
That was 2 weeks ago…
I thought we FINALLY had a connection!
But, at school…he never even looks at me!
And!!!
He has a girlfriend now…
I am completely in love with him but I DON’T know what to do!
And I can’t just walk up to him and talk to him because his stupid, idiotic, gay friends are always with him!
I just need your help!
Dec 12th, 2009
Mikayela
Hi, I’m Mikayela and theres this guy that doesn’t know I exist in my school. I mean we’ve made eye contact a few times, but I’m not even sure if it was me he was looking at… I’ve liked him for a few months now and I can’t get him out of my head. I see him all the time in the halls and my friends have pushed me into him before(I always seem to run into his backside haha), but he wouldn’t even turn around. And I am like to scared & shy to talk to him…so what should I do?
Jan 11th, 2010
Daniela
hey mikayela, i wrote the article on top, about the guy that doesn’t notice me, well i did what Katie said which would have worked but turns out the guy was too arrogant to even notice me, so now im just like whatever and move on. Maybe it’s not the best advice, i mean if i would have heard this when i was crushing on the guy i probably would have ignored it. But the truth is if that the guy isn’t looking at you even when you bump into him, he’s too much of a jerk or to caught up in himself to notice you and is losing the chance to meet you (which sucks for him).
Jun 7th, 2010
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