How Do I Stand Out Above Other Girls?
September 6, 2009
Dear Katie,
Have you ever had a crush who liked you back, but did not give you full attention?
You see… I have always been second best no matter how beautiful I looked or acted when it came to boys! How do I bump up from number two to one?
Lacey, 13
Dear Lacey,
It starts with your own self confidence. What you think about yourself. Because right now, you are not thinking very highly of yourself. You have to BELIEVE you are number one. If you are always walking around thinking you are number two, guys are going to sense that. There is nothing sexier than a girl who is confident…and if you wanna increase your confidence here are some things you can try.
Remind yourself out loud how beautiful you are every day…Say “I’m Confident!” “I’m Number One!” “I’m a loving and caring person!” This may sound kinda corny at first, but over time you will start to believe it and feel that way about yourself! You will no longer feel like number two if you TRULY believe you are number one.
Stop using negative phrases such as “I can’t…” Telling yourself this will stop you from ever trying. If you keep telling yourself you are NEVER going to be number one, you are just keeping yourself down. Be careful how you talk to yourself. We are our own worst enemies and talk to ourselves worst than anyone we know. So try and stop yourself from repeating put downs or negative comments you have been told about yourself. Stop telling yourself you are always number two.
Learn how to accept compliments! Next time someone says something nice about you, thank them and remember what they said and believe in it! If you stop focusing on the negative things people say and remember all the good things, you will feel much better about yourself!
Stay positive at all times! Try hard not to complain or talk negative to yourself or in conversations. When you start to be more aware of what you talk about, you may be surprised how much negativity that comes out of your mouth.
Now don’t be too hard on yourself, because changing your self perception and boosting your confidence is not going to happen over night. This may take a while, but it is totally possible to change and feel that you are number one!
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