How Soon Will He Be Open To A New Relationship?
September 2, 2009
Hi Katie,
My crush just broke up with his girlfriend, he said that the relationship was too close, like she stayed at his house for days, they were always together driving around and stuff like that.
Now he broke up with her and I thought this was my chance and so I started flirting, and we started meeting. But it seems like he doesn’t see me as a potential new girlfriend. So how long will it takes until he’s ready for a new relationship again?
Farina, 17
Dear Farina,
There is no telling when exactly he will be ready. But he is showing interest in you. So here is what you can do. Don’t repeat the same mistakes as his last girlfriend. She sounded like she might have been a little too clingy for him. Some guys like when a girl always wants to hang out, but some guys don’t. They like their personal space and don’t need a girl hanging around them 24/7.
First of all, don’t become too available for him. Make yourself conveniently unavailable when he asks you out SOME of the times. Now I’m not saying to turn him down EVERY time, just don’t say yes to hanging out every single time he wants to. This was why his last relationship failed. She became too available for him and he got bored with her.
So keep him on his toes and keep him guessing. If he knows you aren’t sitting around waiting for him to call, he will gain more interest and be intrigued with you!
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