How Do I Make It More Obvious That I Like Him?

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September 28, 2009

Hi Girl to Girl Talk!

I am friends with this guy. I kinda met him through my other friends, but he is so nice and cute and just plain old AWESOME!

The first time we actually met was when we were at my guy friend’s house helping to film a movie for a school project. I think I might have flirted a little but I’m not sure. I found a toy sword and would poke him with it and we would continuously have “sword fights” on a trampoline. It was so fun and he let me win. After that we talked more and more.

One night I was having a sleep over with my friend and I asked her if she had any idea who I liked and she said either him or another person I used to like. So my question is how do I know if he knows I like him or not?

(P.S. today we had drama club together and we had to build fences together hehe. I was so happy because he asked if I wanted to help.)

Brianna, 13


Dear Brianna,

He probably doesn’t know for CERTAIN if you like him or not. He might have some clues, like that you are nice to him and fun to hang out with. But he is still probably wondering the same thing you are. The cool thing is, is that you both have lots of mutual friends and interests to keep you connected. Use this to your advantage and stay involved in your school projects with him and keep inviting him to hang out with you and your friends.

If you wanna make it a little more obvious you like him, you should start complimenting him occasionally. Make it a genuine compliment. Like how you told me you thought he was really nice and awesome. Tell that to him! I’m sure he would be more than flattered to hear them, plus he will see more clearly that you like him.

xoxo
Katie
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4 Comments, Comment or Ping

  1. sarah

    Dear Girl to Girl talk, I really like this guy and I think he likes me back….but I’m not sure! Today in class we had a fake debate and he kept staring at me until I looked. Sometimes he wouldn’t realize I was looking though ! Haha! Anyway I really don’t know ! help! -sarah

  2. Kellie

    Hey Girl to Girl Talk!
    Ok so I really like this guy he’s cute and funny! But he’s like ALWAYS flirting with other girls and it bugs the crap out of me but it’s not like I can say “Hey stop flirting with so many girls” cause we’re not dating or anything. We’re sorta friends and I want to be more than friends but I’m not sure were I stand with him (like how much he likes me) and I don’t know how to make it clear that I like him and want to go out with him! HELP :)
    -Kellie

  3. Wow, what a lengthy and in depth article but full of useful information

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