Why Do I Feel Like No Guys Like Me?
September 27, 2009
Hello Katie,
Hey, so I need boy advice. I am a really happy, caring, funny and a kind person at least that’s what my friends tell me. And I get along with all of the girls in my grade (I go to an all-girl school) but the thing is I feel like boys don’t like me. I used to go to a co-ed school but then I just went to an all-girl one and yes it is hard to find boys but I still have guy friends.
Even though I do have guy friends, I feel like they actually don’t like me that much and I know that they don’t like me as more than a friend, and I try to seem appealing to them but I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I know that I’m a good person, but I don’t think I’m pretty and I think that I’m kind of fat. What can I do to seem more appealing to guys? (this summer I am going to try and lose weight)
Hannah, 16
Dear Hannah,
It’s great that you are aware of your good qualities such as that you are funny, happy, caring, and kind. These qualities are very special and can be rare sometimes. I think the guys you are friends with right now are just not mature enough to see past your outer image. However, I do think you should continue to set goals for yourself to start eating healthier and exercising regularly. This will help your outside appearance match your inner beauty.
I can tell that you are confident in the inner qualities that you have and others will definitely see your confidence and feel good when they are around you. I have met people that are not extremely attractive on the outside but once I have gotten to know them and seen how kind and sweet they were, they actually became more attractive to me because they had such a great inner beauty. So keep embracing your inner qualities as you work on your outside appearance.
In the meantime, take a look at the beauty section, there are lots of great tips for makeup and beauty! So make sure that you are following all of the tips in order to look your best!
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