Half The Time I Think He Likes Me, The Other Half I’m Confused…
August 26, 2009
Hi Katie,
Hey, I like this guy. He is really cute and were friends and his family likes me and I like his family so there is no problem there…but the problem is, I don’t know if he likes me or not. Half the time I think he likes me but then the other half I’m confused. I think he flirts with me sometimes, I mean he has done the whole Tease,Touch (flirty touch),Questions thing.
Lately he has been acting different torwds me though, he has really been trying to get to know me more. But idk if he is just being a flirt or if he really likes me. He is one of the sweetest, funniest guys, but I wanna ask him if he likes me like I like him.
I don’t want to ruin our friendship and get embarrassed if he doesn’t like me back though. Help! PLEASE!!!
Elizabeth, 13
Dear Elizabeth,
That is a great question! Sometimes it can be really hard to tell how a guy is feeling and you don’t want to jeopardize your friendship. It can be a very fine line sometimes and once you cross it there is no turning back. One good rule of thumb is that if a guy likes you he will eventually make a move as long as he thinks you like him too.
If you do tell him how you feel, just be prepared for if he doesn’t share your feelings. Like you said, things can get awkward, so wait a little longer to see if he shows any signs that he likes you back.
If I were you, I would remain friends and occasionally flirt with him and hint at liking him and find reasons to hang out with him more. This would help set up opportunities for him to ask you out and for him to flirt back if he likes you too.
So suggest to him that you really wanna see a new movie playing or that you wanna learn a new computer game. See if he suggests you guys see the movie together or if he offers to teach you the game. This way you are not putting him on the spot by asking straight out if he likes you back. You are giving him a chance to show you that he is interested without having to come out and say it.
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