How Do I Get My Crush To Ask Me Out?
August 24, 2009
Hi Katie,
There is this guy I like and I think he likes me too but I can’t seem to figure out if he likes me or not. I read my friend and his journal (which I know was completly wrong of me) and found out he might ask me out.
I heard his brothers tell everyone he likes me. But he hangs out with other girls. My other friend said he does that to make girls he likes jealous. I’m pretty sure he likes me but I dont know why he doesn’t just ask me out already.
Is he just nervous? Should I ask him out?
Kennedy, 13
Dear Kennedy,
He has told his friends he likes you and written in a journal that he is going to ask you out, so I think he definetly likes you. He is just waiting for a the perfect opportunity to ask you out. Here are some things that you can do…
Make yourself available! When he asks you what your plans are for the weekend, don’t start rattling off a list of things you have to get done. Instead say that you are open still and don’t have any plans. This leave him with an opportunity to ask you out since you are not busy.
Find times when you can be alone with him! Guys don’t like to ask a girl out when she is with her friends or if he is with his friends in fear that if they are rejected other people will witness it. So try to find excuses to be one on one with him, like walk to class together, or at lunch don’t hang with your friends the entire time. Tell them you will be back and go near where he is hanging out and read a magazine or something. If he sees that you are alone, he will be much more comfortable approaching you than if you are with all your girlfriends.
And when he flirts with you flirt back! (So that he knows that you are interested too!) When it comes to asking girls out, guys are very scared of rejection. Esspecially when they are your age and just starting to ask girls out, they like to make 100% sure that the girl is into them too. A good way to flirt back is to laugh at his jokes, have some body contact like squeezing his arm or sholder, use good eye contact, and complement him!
When he is sure that you like him back, he will be WAY more confident that you will say “yes!” when he asks you out. So help boost his confidence and don’t be afraid to show him that you like him back.
2 Comments, Comment or Ping
Maddie
Hi I’m Maddie,
I looked thru some questions and some where helpful just not exactly what I’m looking for, you see I like this guy it’s just that, well, take some other girls for example they know their chrushes or are friends with them, but he doesn’t seem to want to be around me. We have small talk like: “Did you see the Simpsons episode yesterday, wasn’t it funny” but he seems to talk to all the other girls. I’m even starting to belive that he likes my friend because at one of my parties he was talking to her the whole time. Oh, and also about 3 or 4 other people that I know like him. So I realy want your opinion, Should I move on to someone else and if not, how do I show him my feelings without telling him?
Thanks for taking your time and reading this and for all of your help,
Maddie
Sep 15th, 2009
Jenny Swift
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