Am I Being Too Clingy?
August 17, 2008
So I have been seeing this guy recently. In one week we had four dates and we have always had a lot of fun and we seem generally interested in each other. Before we leave he always asks me what I’m doing the next night.
I usually tell him I get out of school at 3 and I don’t tell him I have any set plans. A few times he’s asked me that and then he tells me he has plans with his friends or family and I ask him if we should do something later on in the week.
Is he just simply interested in what I’m doing and interested in letting me know what he’s doing too? Should I have acted less available when he asks me what I’m doing? Have I acted desperate? ~ Michelle
Dear Michelle,
You are not being to clingy. It sounds like you just want to spend time with him. He is just asking out of interest and just because he has other plans doesnt mean he doesnt want to see you. It’s good for both of you to hang out with other friends and not just eachother.
But don’t worry, he is not thinking you are being too clingy or unavailable….maybe next time ask him first then when he says he has plans say that you are doing something too that way it doesnt seem like you are too available!
Best of Luck!
Katie
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