I’m 15 And I’ve Never Had a Boyfriend, Please Help…
August 17, 2008
Yeah, so I’m 15. I’ve never had a boyfriend and it’s never particularly bothered me until my friend brought it up a couple weeks ago. Suddenly I’ve realised I’m one of the only ones I know who’s never been with anyone. It’s made me feel pretty lonely. I don’t know if I’ll ever find anyone!
But then my friend worried me, by saying that if I did meet someone, they might find it weird that I’ve never been with anyone before! Would that give them an incentive to avoid me? Or use me!? I need advice. What do you think I should do? ~ Sierra
Dear Sierra,
You are not alone! I know plently of girls in the same situation. In fact I did not have my first real boyfriend until I was 17.
It is a good thing to be selective and not just have a boyfriend for the sake of having a boyfriend…its a waste of your time if you are not truely into him.
Dont worry about it…you will have one at some point! Just enjoy your time with your friends and keep your options open and get to know some of the boys at your school…who knows, one may end up becoming your boyfriend.
Just remember there is no rush…I know how you feel at this moment and it feels like it will never come…but as soon as you meet a guy that you connect with on that level, you will know and trust me it WILL HAPPEN =)
xoxo
Katie
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