What Can Happen Next…?
August 17, 2008
Dear Katie,
What happens when you are talking to someone trying to get to know him, and then you see your ex for the first time in three years. Your feelings come back for your ex but your really feeling the guy you are trying to get to know now.
When you and your ex left each other, it was all ended on good terms. But now he is back trying to win your love again… Have you ever been in a situation like this? If so, what happened? What should I do?
Peace n Love
Riley
Dear Riley,
Well you have invested a lot of time with this ex….but remember ex’s anre ex’s for a reason. So precede with caution and remember why it didn’t work out the first time.
It also depends on how you feel about him. Sounds like he wants you back, but do you want him back? What are your true feelings? These are questions to start asking yourself.
Here is what I would do in your situation. Keep your options open…continue to get to know this new guy, it could lead to a great relationship. But keep your relationship with your ex casual, dont give too much of yourself at first. Make sure he knows that you just want to be strictly friends for now. Keep it light and happy…nothing too serious and heavy with your ex-boyfriend.
After a little while you will know what is best…to keep your ex as a friend and continue your relationship with the new guy….or dump the new guy and get back with your ex.
xoxo
Katie
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