I Want to Be More Out Going…
August 17, 2008
Dear Katie,
School is coming up and I want to have more confidence and have guys notice me more. I just lost a bunch of weight over the summer and people say I am really beautiful now. What can I do to feel better and because I always feel so shy and hidden. Please help me!
~ Jina
Dear Jina,
Confindence is really one of the most attractive qualities a person can have. It comes from being truely comfortable with who you are inside. Good looks dont always mean high confidence…I know many good looking people who are very insecure and not confident.
But on the other hand I know other people who are not neccesarily great looking, but they are very confident and charismatic…they are really comfortable with who they are as a person.
So just because you have lost some weight and look better on the outside, does not mean that you will automatically have higher confidence and be more out going….you are still the same person on the inside, no mater how much weight you gain or loose on the outside.
So my advice to you would be to look at the person you are and really find the good qualities that make you..YOU. Then you will have inner confidence and be comfortable with yourself on a deeper level and that will help you to be more outgoing and confident.
When you start school, set a goal to talk to at least one new person each day that you dont normally talk to…even if its just small talk like “hey, Mrs. Smith is really a crazy teacher, huh!?”
Just opening up and realizing that people are not judging you as much as you are judging yourself. Be positive and people will respond to you in a positive way!
Good luck sweetie!
Katie
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