Not Sure If I Should I Break Up With My Boyfriend…
September 3, 2008
I don’t want to break up with him just yet, I need to advice on how I should approach our issue? I’m almost 17 and my boyfriend and I have been on again off again for almost a year now. He came over a month ago and my mom got mad because she was concerned that he was using me. Then, once again he left! I think that I love him a lot.. But it has now been over a month since we have seen each other!
Since last Wednesday our communication just stopped. I emailed him a lot over the past weekend and I do feel like I shouldn’t have! He finally responded me saying; that he was sorry that he didn’t write back, but I have to calm down. He said he was occupied at work and working out at the Gym. He said that I have to stop being so obsessive, and that his phone is getting fixed. (Sounds like a lot of excuses) But he’s sorry that he didn’t respond and said we’ll talk soon.
It’s been over a week since we’ve had an actual phone conversation and I feel so hurt. He did tell me previously that he loves me. I sent him back an email last Sunday that I was sorry and I’ll give him space. I want this to work out with him and I’m a very patient person, but I feel like my patience is running out.
I need your help please!! I want to call him and try to get him to work things out face to face. However, how do I tell him that over the phone?
I need your help how to approach this. Please help me!!
Thank you. Mica
Dear Mica,
I honestly have to say that you should move on…this guy just doesn’t seem like he is that into you anymore.
You should find a guy who is emotionally and physically available for you and who wants to put forth effort to see you and call you and not make you wonder if he is still into you or not.
Sometimes we want what we cant have, and I think this may be a classic case of this. I don’t think you really love him, I think you just really desire him because he is inaccessable to you.
I have been there too, and its a lot easier said then done, but the best thing you can do is let this guy go and over time you will eventually forget about him.
Good luck sweetie!
xoxo Katie
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