I Really Want to Hold Hands With Him…

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September 6, 2008

Hi Katie,

So. Everyone goes to the schools high school football game, and I was planning on going.   And I know my boyfriend will be there… and I am not sure… like.

I really want to hold hands with him. But.. it feels really awkward for me to just grab his hand. Like.. we have held hands two other times before. But he always grabbed my hand. AHH! HELP PLEASE!
Thanks, Amanda.

P.S. Please answer this as soon as possible. Because the game is tomorrow. (Friday)

 

Hi Amanda!

So, you are meeting boyfriend at the game and wanna hold hands with him but you say it feels awkward to make the first move. I think it feels awkward for you to be the one to grab his hand because maybe you are not used to being the one to initiate anything.

I can totally relate! Us girls are so used to the guys initiating everything and being the one to always make the first move, that it feels weird when we are the ones to do it. When in all reality guys love when girls initiate stuff or make the first move…it shows that the girl is confidant and that she is into the guy, which are two of the most attractive qualities a girl can have.

So don’t be shy…if you feel the timing is right…like you guys are walking side by side go ahead, reach out grab his hand! He will definitely be glad you did!

Only one word of caution though….if he is hanging in a group of all his guy friends and football players….it may not be the right time to hold hands….don’t be offended if he doesn’t want to, its just that many guys don’t like a lot public affection…especially around all their guy friends. So wait until you guys are walking together and all his attention is on you, and make your move =)

Have fun tonight!

Katie

Girl to Girl Talk

6 Comments, Comment or Ping

  1. Just go for it and grab his hand! If you have held hands before, it shouldnt feel too akward!

  2. teezy

    just hold his damn hand.
    he aint gon care.

  3. Kennedy

    I say go for it. It will make him feel like your not afraid to do anything.

  4. hi kennedy
    I am looking forword to meeting you
    and held hands at the mall
    Love
    megan

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