Why Did He Stop Talking To Me?
October 10, 2008
Okay there is this guy i like and he is 1 year older than me. We have never really got together but i know him from school, except he doesn’t know what grade i am in.
We used to text all the time! He told me he liked me and we stayed up talking to each other all night! Then all of a sudden he stopped, we barley talk anymore… whats up with that?
~Stacy, 13
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Dear Stacy,
Sounds like you and this guy had a connection at first when you talked all night. And tere is no faking that, so maybe the reason he has been M.I.A is that he is distracted by something else or someone. Maybe he has a girlfriend and can’t talk to other girls or feels guilt for talking to you that night…that doesnt mean that he didn’t connect with you, it just means that its bad timing (if that is what it was)
I was in a situation one time where I was with a guy and met another guy that I connected with. But for me, I do not like to cheat on my boyfriends, so although I connected with the new guy I met, I didn’t pursue it at all because I really liked the guy I was with and respected our relationship.
But Im sure from the other guy’s point of view he was probably very confused as to why I didn’t return his phone calls or texts messages after we connected so well.
So to make a long story short….there could be many reasons why he hasnt been pursuing you and we can speculate all day….but the only FOR SURE way to find out is to ask him.
Just say “hey I really felt a strong connection between us when we talked before, and I havn’t heard from you in a little while…just wondering if you had felt the connection too” and see what he says.
Good luck sweetie!
xoxo Katie
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