Why Does He Stare At Me?
February 2, 2009
Okay so there’s this boy I like and I think he likes me too because when were together he is so sweet and nice. But when he is around all his friends he is big headed. He has a girlfriend who is my friend and she dosn’t know that I like him…
But I am in love with him and it hurts to see them hugging. So a few questions… Why when he hugs and kisses her, why does he stare at me? What should i do about it? It’s realy depressing me help!!! 
~ Francesca
Dear Francesca,
The fact of the matter is that he is taken. So if it hurts to see them hugging, try not to hang out with your friend when she is with him. But don’t tell her that you like him, there is no reason for that and it will only cause trouble in your friendship. So honor your friend and leave her boyfriend alone. Think about it from her point of view…if you were dating a guy you really liked and she liked him too, how would you want her to act?
Sometimes when a guy is taken he is more attractive than if he were single. Things are always more appealing when other people want them. So ask yourself if you like him because your friend likes him, or if you would like him if he were single.
And about him looking at you when they are hugging/kissing…I wouldn’t read to far into that…it could be that you are staring and he is just looking back. So the best thing to do, is if you are hanging out with your friend and she starts to kiss him, go talk to someone else or look away. It will only be torturing yourself if you stick around and watch them make out.
xoxo Katie
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