Should I Ask For His Phone Number, Or Wait Until He Asks Me?
February 2, 2009
Hi, I don’t know how to get close to this guy. You see, we only get to see each other twice a week, in an after-school learning program…whenever he finishes his work, he goes over to me and we talk (or rather, whisper) about nothing in particular, until one of us has to leave.
Problem is, I hardly see him otherwise, and my mother is the chief instructor in the center, so no flirting. lol! I like him, but do you think he likes me? (I looked up from my table once and I saw him looking at me; he winked).
Should I ask for his cellphone number? Or should I wait until he asks me for mine?…” ~Sakura
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Dear Sakura,
Good question! Sometimes it is hard to tell if you should wait for him to ask for your number or if you should ask him for his. He may not have asked you for your number yet because your mother is there and he doesn’t want to make you feel awkward.
So if I were you I would do one of two things. You can think of something to do together outside of the program, like talk about a cool movie that is playing in the theater and if he seems like he is interested suggest going to see it together. Then you guys will have to exchange numbers.
Or you could just straight out offer your number to him, like when you guys are chatting at the end of the learning program just say “hey I have a lot of fun chatting with you, here is my cell number, we should hang out some time”. If you sound confident and are sure of yourself he will definetly take you up on your offer.
You asked if he likes you or not…it is kinda hard to tell just from the info you gave me, but you will know once you hang out with him one on one outside of the learning program how he acts around you. If you do give him your number and he calls you and wants to spend time with you that is a good sign that he likes you.
But if he doesn’t pursue you right away that doesn’t always mean that he doesn’t like you. Some guys can be kinda shy or play hard to get when it comes to girls they have a crush on, so feel it out and just be yourself with him, thats all you can do, the rest is up to him.
xoxo Katie
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