“Hi Katie,

My boyfriend asked if I still love him? What sould I do?

~Abby, 15

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Dear Abbey,

Your boyfriend is asking you if you still love him because he may have sensed a change in how you feel about him. You should really try and think about how you honestly feel about him…and if you really have to think hard to figure out if you love him, you probably arn’t in love.

And thats ok! So be honest with him and with yourself and if you don’t have the same feelings discuss it with him and try to find out why your feelings changed.

Either way, if you want to still be with your boyfriend try to be as open and honest with him about your feelings for him. He is asking because he wants to know, so don’t be shy about sharing your feelings.

But if you no longer want to be with him, now is the time to end it if you don’t have the same feelings for him as he does for you. And if you do end it, go easy on the guy and try not to crush his heart.

xoxo

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“Hi Katie,

What do I do If I have a boyfriend that I like a lot, but also have an exboyfriend that I still like a lot?

Please write back :] thanks!!!!!!!”

~ Elizabeth, 13

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Dear Elizabeth,

Liking two guys at the same time is a good problem to have, lol! But it can be complicated. It happens a lot to people because they like one guy and connect with him but then they meet another guy they really connect with too! This is why people (guys and girls) end up cheating. Because they couldn’t make a choice to be with the person they are with…and end up liking two guys at once.

In your case here is what you should do. If you like them both the SAME…give your current boyfriend a chance and try to forget about your ex. Sometimes girls reminess about their past relationship and all the good times and start to remember why they liked that guy…they seem to forget about the reasons why they broke up. So remember that ex’s are ex’s for a reason, and you should try to remember why didn’t work out before, ask yourself why it might work a second time with him?

So here’s the thing, I’m sure you already know, but you need to make a decision. Decide which guy to like and put 100% effort into HIM. You said you really like your current boyfriend so stay with him and if it doesn’t work out you can always date your ex again!

xoxo

Katie

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